Why can't people just let you know WHY they're not going to text you back ever?

I would rather: "Hey, I'm puking my brains out and feel like shit so talk to you tomorrow" or even "Hey something's come up so I'm not going to be texting you for a while"

"Okay cool dude/ hope you get better"

Than: "gtg for a bit" <- Because when I see that, I'm expecting you to text back in a couple hours. That, to me, implies that you will be texting me back at some point later today. To me, that implies that something has come up and you're busy for a little bit (hence the: gtg for a bit). Like work, or chores, class, etc.

What the hell? Am I that unreliable? Do you think I'm going to throw all Hell at you and complain? Do you not…. trust me with that information? Is "puking your brains out" really that personal that you wouldn't want to share it with someone who cares about you?

I'm usually a reasonable person. I put up with that sort of shit, I really do. I wouldn't even care if you just said, "Hey I don't feel like talking to you right now". That's at least a reason, even if it sucks.


I just think it would be nicer that you'd… oh I dunno, EXPLAIN a bit more instead of leaving me hanging. K thanks.

(Is it just me or would that upset/anger you?)